...secret lovers

you think that you're not just #1 but the only one. that's nice, but understand this...

public declaration is one of the most sincere forms of "claiming" that a man can do. Otherwise, you're just believing the hype. you may as well strap on a seat belt 'cause you're being taken for a ride

EVIDENCE

the fact that he's lovey dovey around a particular group means absolutely nothing. So you've met his family and friends, but you've never met co-workers, or that time when you dropped him off at work you barely got a goodbye.

maybe you've been to the office christmas party and he sits with you at church with his arm around you. why are there NO pictures of you on his facebook and his relationship status is hidden because he "never thought to put it up there"

maybe you've gotten all of these things, but you've NEVER been to his favorite spot. This one is kinda touchy because there is some value in having a place to get away and jut kick it with the fellas. But the fact that you are basically NOT ALLOWED to come should raise some concerns

BASICALLY

the man that loves you will shout it from the mountaintops. there is no place or group of people for whom that love has to be tempered. any proclamations about "not having people in my business" or just not being "that type of guy" fall into the category of game