Thursday, December 22, 2011

I Want My Cake

"i've never lived my days like this. i wake up in the morning, she greets me with her kiss. the Lord has gifted me with such happiness, it feels like Heaven..." -Solo

there's really not a direct correlation between the song and this blog. but it is my latest karaoke panty dropper fave so i'll run with it. btw... that Solo album was the bomb, at least the 3 or 4 songs that i remember... Where Do You Want Me To Put It asks the perfect question... Xxxtra Special, need i say more... alright, back to the lecture at hand...

for men, new love is the best love, mostly because it's completely voluntary. i'm seeing you for no reason other than the fact that i want to see you. it's not because we have kids, or financial obligations, or herpes, or because i'm horny and don't want to masturbate... again, or because i know you expect to see me at least twice a week. it's purely that i enjoy spending time with you and look forward to doing it again. 

for me, relationships should work in a similar fashion. i like you. i like spending time with you. i like being on the phone with you. and when i don't, i'm able to express that freely without it being a lingering issue... sounds good, but so does a chocolate river.

problem is, with time comes expectations, unspoken expectation, which leads to unspoken disappointment... fast forward and we have the some of the same issues that plague many of the relationships i see around me... i WILL find a way to have my cake... while also eating it
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  1. from the desk of ....meDecember 22, 2011 at 11:12 PM

    just remember, sweets are best enjoyed in moderation...when we eat too much, we tend to get sick...good luck on ur quest to keep the cake fresh as time passes...because stale, hard cake is the worst :(

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  2. P IvyDecember 23, 2011 at 11:20 AM

    Its nice to have the cake while eating it, but we have to make sure the right ingredients are there. If you know what flavor you want then go for that don't accept chocolate when you really wanted vanilla:) Relationships can be difficult but I believe that don't have to be.....#wholelotofhonesty!

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  3. Honkus GroganaMarch 10, 2012 at 8:17 PM

    I've got one of those "my husband is my best friend" marriages. (Not bragging-- I for sure did my time in a really rough marriage before this, so maybe the universe decided to cut me a break.) When we're not together, and I see something funny, or interesting, my first thought is to call him up and tell him about it. And he does the same. One thing that may keep us happy is that we do both have our own independent interests. During a day at home, we mix up hanging out together and each doing our own thing.He might be downstairs playing guitar while I'm upstairs making jewelry or hoopdancing.We admire each other for those things that one does so well and the other doesn't, respect the talents. It keeps us interesting to each other.

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