Don't Rock the Boat

one hit wonder songs have a way of staying in your head for days at a time... Don't Rock the Boat by Midnight Star is one such song... who knows if they only have one hit, its the only song I know by them and it makes this opening argument work better ...the recurring theme of the song, or at least the part that plays in my head is "if it don't fit, don't force it. just relax and let it flow" ...how did facebook become soooo popular?!?

QUESTION

if the relationship is hard, as in we've only been kicking it a few weeks and already we're encountering decent-sized hurdles, is it not best to stop "forcing it", ease up, and see if it works itself out... or is it more reasonable to expect that it WON'T work out without special attention and its survival depends on intervention